Since we
are Logical, intelligent people, we try
to
solve our problems logically.
The trouble
is that
most problems are not logical but emotional.
Trying to solve emotional problems such
as Anger, Shame, Guilt, Abandonment,
Rejection, Fear of Power, Success, etc. logically
is likely not even possible.
Emotions and Logic are like two different languages. My belief is
that Emotions are our body's original
language; beginning even in the womb...
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We
receive 60% of our basic
personality during those 9 months
and on the day of birth we first
learn about breathing, eating,
touch, change of temperature,
others and much more. |
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By
the time we are 2 1/2, we had 85%
of our personality, and we still
don't have a developed brain. |
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Around
the age of 7 our brain shifts
from the emotional language of
the child to the adult language
around it. However the brain is
98% programmed emotionally
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The
results are that when we try to connect
with
our emotional problems we are using the
wrong
language; Logic. This is similar to
reading a French book with a German
dictionary.
Ever
notice that the more emotional a
person gets, the more childlike
they behave?
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For
example: The angrier a person gets, the more
they get red faced and can't talk, just
like a baby.
That's because they learned anger as a
baby.
Some people learn Anger in the womb and
black
out with extreme Anger, going Berserk.
Why
do we get easily overwhelmed because of
rejection or abandonment?
Babies are
easily overpowered. It's an extension of
emotional intelligence. We think that we
can control our emotional life using
strict discipline, rigid control, logic,
Spirituality, etc. Thus cutting off the
possibility of using the emotions for fun
and profit. You can go to college to
learn logic and church or guru to learn
spirit, but...
Where
do you go to learn how to grow up
the emotions?
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I've found that a combination of
Spirit and N.L.P. can be used to evolve
emotions into the adult stage where they
can be used to live a Open, Joyful life, without
fear.
"The
language of your body itself is
your emotions."
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Many teachers have concentrated
on exploring
intelligence. Many others work to develop
your
spirituality. Very rare are those who
possess the
knowledge and tools needed to help you to
develop your emotions. When Spirit wishes
to
communicate with intelligence, it must go
through
the body that your intelligence is housed
in.
The language of your body itself is your
emotions.
If your emotions are negative or
confused, then
so is the Spiritual message distorted.
Clear, clean
emotions let the Spiritual messages go
through
accurately, correctly.
ANGER,
SHAME and FEAR control our
unconscious behavior and force us to
sabotage
ourselves and our relationships.
How many
times have you heard people say,
"I didn't mean to hurt you."
or "I don't
know why I do these things." or "I
can't stop
doing that." or "Why
can't I seem to get
anywhere?"
Psychologist believe that we
only use perhaps 2
percent of our potential brain power.
The other
98 percent is hidden in our
subconscious
FEELINGS, EMOTIONS, and INSTINCTS.
The
subconscious out numbers the
intellect by
50
to 1.
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Guess
who wins?
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That 98% of your mind is in
control and you've
never learned to communicate with it
properly.
That means that thinking your way
out of an
emotional problem may not even be
possible.
It also means that any changes made in
the
subconscious would be at least 50
times more powerful than thinking. Positive
feelings,
based on reality, are
far more effective than
positive thinking.
The
attitudes, feelings, knowing, values that
you
have, were learned the first few years of
your life.
They shaped your unconscious mind, and
your
unconscious mind shaped your life. You
are at
the mercy of unconscious beliefs that you
aren't
even consciously aware of. As we used to
say:
"LOTSA LUCK!"
How can
you get in touch with feelings that you first learned as a baby?
Only
recently has research begun to uncover
ways to consistently, correctly work with
the subconscious mind.
It is now possible to
effectively and safely enter into your
unconscious
mind and uncover the REAL reasons
why your
life is the way it is.
I use the latest,
most effective
ways to show you how to get in touch with
the
real designer of your life, your
unconscious
mind, to heal and transform your
emotions into
wonderful, joyful tools that you can use
to lead
your REAL happy life.
As I wrote
above, this is my belief! I might
be
wrong, but as long as I have close to
100%
success in a session, I'll keep on using
it.
-
Lance Thurston
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